Whack-a-mole part 1: I found joy after IVF failed. Then perimenopause showed up...

(Forewarning, I get a bit sweary in this piece. In my defence, it wouldn’t be an authentic piece of writing about the cluster that is IVF ending and perimenopause showing up without some F bombs)

It was nothing drastic. Just an accumulation of small but not insignificant changes I’d been clocking for a while.

There was one weekend I remember in particular…